Not knowing that you are a higher faculty who has adopted this physical body to understand and experience bliss.
The hype and excitement around sex is a big myth and misuse of the imaginative power that human beings have.
Biologically it is an agitated state of the body with heightened reflex actions beyond your control and resulting in extreme fatique. No human being male or female do any physical activity after an orgasm and it drains you completely. Anyone can validate that by experience.
The poor cultural inheritance of Sex being some super satisfying activity needs to be questioned.
The soul which experiences is gender neutral which again anybody can validate.
Hope people make this response viral to actually educate the preparotors of these activities and help curtail it suo motto instead of fear coercion or guilt.