This is not just understanding life but living it. It is not sex that makes or mars a marriage.The creation of and bringing to life another human being is a sacred task which each one of us born is naturally required to perform. It is an awesome experience that you both have been through and Katherine and you are a couple who are separated physically yes but emotionally I am not sure.
Where ever both of you move out you are going to carry that warmth of love that you have experienced with each other .That experience is to be cherished and am sure will support both of you through the journey of life .
Ian thank you for touching the emotions of so many people and helping them realize the importance of experiencing relationship and giving it more importance than Sex.